We all are on a path that leads to many places. There are forks in the road at times, routes change, even who we may see on the road and never see again. That's how life is and we get thrown curveballs in our wake out of nowhere when we least expect it. It's never meant to be easy but it can be interesting when you learn to follow your instincts and do what you can in the moment.
Becoming the best versions of ourselves is part of that journey. The trouble is, many attempt to be better than somebody else outside of a sport or want to be like somebody else. Seriously, why would you want to be somebody else when they're already taken? When I first learned this when I was younger, it opened my eyes to things that I didn't see at the time. When I was growing up, I wanted to be a basketball player and had dreams of being in the NBA. I wanted to be like Jordan, Kobe, Malone and those other guys. In reality, I can shoot a little bit and defend slightly but I was never going to be 6'6 and dominate guys that would shatter me on the court in a heartbeat. I like basketball and I'll play every now and then but it was never a true passion of mine.
Some have this egotistical notion that they have to be better than others at everything when here on earth, that's not entirely possible. There are things you can be great at that others will never reach, there are those that will always be better than you at some things but will never match some of the things you are capable of. I can't even begin to try to outdo anybody else, shit I'd rather attempt to be better than who I was yesterday or years ago and work on things that matter to me than to be above somebody else when I don't even need to.
It's like those striving to be so perfect at something that it becomes a chase that never ends and even if it did, what do you really accomplish? Chasing perfection is like racing in a 84 Buick against a Viper or Mustang, you won't be able to catch up no matter how hard you try. Chase evolvement. Find other ways to grow and take on challenges that make you learn and become a greater individual than you were before. In sports, many chase to become better than their competitor which is often a better suited entity. However; one could attempt to out do or become the GOAT of their generation or even ever in that sport but there are things regardless of who you are, you're either going to be statistically greater or you'll manage to become something beyond statistics.
Think of it this way, why do people in boxing pick Muhammad Ali over someone like say Rocky Marciano or Mike Tyson? Ali was a showman that had talent above practically any other boxer before or since and fought with very tough motherfuckers. He didn't defeat people with just his hands and his conditioning, he was most brutal when it came to the mind game and there were boxers who had some better wins/losses than he did but he didn't care. He made the "Float like a butterfly, sting like a bee" an art form that translated into his focus to be the very best at his sport. Tyson wasn't flashy or a great talker, he relied on street smarts, brute strength and had cardio that was unprecedented in the heavyweight division. He had power that was unique even for today and can still go which is impressive even if it's not in his prime shape. Rocky was out of the three, the only undefeated one that was in an era where fights went longer and didn't rely on charisma because quite frankly he barely had any in comparison to Ali or Tyson but to me, he was the guy who would be able to go at any length of a fight and still come out on top. All three are at the top of the pyramid of the all time greats.
A person's journey will take them to many places and we may get caught up in some things, but there's always a path that leads to somewhere and we're either going to grow or get lost in the trenches. Sometimes, getting lost may be part of the journey because we may find things we didn't expect and they turn out to be the very things we were looking for without realizing it.
My own path has led me to places I never thought I'd end up at. Took wrong turns at times, had routes that some made sense while others didn't but as of right now, I'm on the path I'm meant to be at for the moment and it's going to be a hell of a ride as time goes on. I have changed over the years, I've had to learn how to overcome things some will never understand or even care about but that doesn't mean I'm above anybody else, sure I can do certain things others can't and there are things I'm far better at than some will ever admit but my journey is to not be better than the next guy, it's to be better than who I was before and that is the true aspect of where I want to be. Hell, I'm a lot leaner than I use to be, I was closer to 300 lbs at a point in my life (roughly 8 years ago) than I' am now at 237. I may not have six pack abs or look shredded like a Classic Physique Mr. Olympia but I'm healthier, I'm in better condition and I'm continuing to do things that I've never thought were possible. I get to work on things that matter to me, I don't even remotely attempt to try to keep up with someone else, what would be the actual purpose of that?
I get to live in a world of Physical Culture that blends itself with the old school styles with today's scientific entities and although I lean more towards the old school (although some things are very outdated that need a tune up) it's still far better than a lot of things today. I got to train with some of the strongest on the planet pound for pound, sparred with a UFC fighter in BJJ, made friends with people that will always have a place in my life and had mentors that gave me opportunities to better myself when I was lost at times. There are things I still have yet to learn but that's part of evolving and it continues to be a great ride. A journey that takes many roads but never ends.
Be amazingly awesome and continue to kick ass in your journey. You got this and keep evolving.
