Can't Always Take Life Too Seriously

 

There's a time and place to be serious in certain situations for sure but throughout many aspects of life, it's important to enjoy the little things and be as happy as you can. Some people don't know how to be happy or think its some kind of weakness when in reality, they're just bitter people with nothing better to do. 

Having fun doesn't always have to be being loose either, it's going about the journey and taking things in stride. Relax a little bit and get a perspective on what's possible. For me, it's my training where I can learn to do bad ass stuff and give whatever comes to mind a go. Doesn't matter if it's playing around with the Dopamineo Bands, messing with Thor Hammers or doing the Sapate, there's something cool to do and figure out what it can do for you.

Life is already hard for many and maybe the hard stuff is what makes them happy who knows but a lot just sink into this hole of because of how hard things get, that's all they know and being happy is some kind of luxury and wish it wasn't. Being happy in general is more of a mindset than anything but plenty fake being happy or think they need to act happy to protect an image or something. True happiness is an individual thing but I believe it's when despite the bullshit that goes on, there's a piece within us that can have the courage to smile genuinely and make the most out of it. That's just me but it may be different for somebody else. Some of my best moments of happiness is being with family or with the woman I love, other times are in my training sessions and just getting into it with passion. Like I said, it's an individual thing.

In certain cases, there are people who are envious of other people's happiness and are obsessed at what they have and weaponize it in order to suit their little pity parties. They even go as far as to rant about it constantly to an audience that really doesn't give a shit and will eventually die out because nobody wants to see someone bitch about another grown man for so long that it consumes what they're trying to promote. The trouble is, those people are just flat out bat shit crazy and think being happy and having fun is unmanly when in reality, they're just bitter souls with no hint of a life that means anything. 

There is nothing wrong with being genuinely happy. Cheering on another person's success, them cheering you on, making a PR, laughing with the people you care about and making a living that keeps things flowing. That's just some of the things to be happy about. Taking things way too seriously too often can bite you in the ass whether intentionally or not and it's a choice to become something that will never be able to crawl out, or blast through the fucking walls and see things for what they are without punishing your own mental health and even physical well-being for it.

Taking certain things too seriously ages you and will devour anything that can be good and overcome aspects of adversity. I understand what that's like. I know what it's like to be bitter about things but these days, I laugh them off and some are just so damn ridiculous and to a point where it's just noise and isn't affecting my life. I get to enjoy things that I love and don't take them for granted. Hell, I get to go to places for my birthday this year that I've never been before and don't know what to expect. It's exciting man and get to do it with my partner in crime. 

For real though, do what's possible to enjoy life as best as you can. This is the only life we have and it's important to not be so angry and overwhelmed with bitterness. Some are just so pissed off and blame others without taking responsibility for their own messed up situations or taking responsibility for their actions against people that want nothing to do with them. Their anger and obsessions are their own problems and using others as a shield of those problems will come back to haunt them. It's just a matter of time before they learn what others are truly capable of and realize they can't beat them and know that those who are truly happy can take things for what they are and win above all else while those who choose to rot in their own mind and body will continue to go down a black hole of misery and despair while slowly and painfully dying inside. Find happiness, it's better than the alternative. 

Be amazingly awesome and have a kick ass Friday everyone. Be sure to email me, shoot me a comment and/or sign up to get articles like these sent to your email. Make your weekend bad ass and fun.   

400 Push-Ups And Learning About Enjoyment

 Yesterday, I just felt the need to do Push-Ups, mainly the regular or military style with a few variations here and there. I finished off with 400 for the day and it made me learn a few things. As great as push-ups are and how some are so damn fanatical about them, I just don't enjoy them or find them that stimulating unless their part of a circuit. It's not saying they're a terrible form of training, they're definitely not but unless you're in a sport or doing some kind of challenge for a cause or hell if you're joining the military than maybe they have something worthwhile doing. 

I wanted to do them just to see if I can since it has been years since I've done that many in a day. I didn't enjoy them at all quite frankly and if I don't get some form of enjoyment out of it, it's not going to last. This might piss people off or make them think that not doing push-ups, I'm not training right, well, yeah I' am, just not big on certain forms like others. I do what I love because that's what stimulates me and gives me enjoyment whether it's challenging or just having fun with exercises. It's not in my mindset to do that many on a consistent basis which is ok, It's not like I can't do them at all, just a thing to do in a relatively less capacity or once in a blue moon. 

What you enjoy is what you should be doing. If you enjoy push-ups and you can't get enough of them, do a fucking lot of them and I really hope they benefit you. Some will do 200, 300, 500 or more a day and it's beneficial to them, that's what's important, most of the time the numbers are just arbitrary and more of an ego thing. It doesn't need to be shoved down someone's throat fitness wise that if you don't do this many reps or do that exercise a certain way, you're not fit, you're a loser and that's way far from the truth. There is more to life than just push-ups guys LOL. 

I get far more out of animal moves, Isometrics, cables, carries, hammers and step-ups/squats than I ever do with push-ups. Once you hit a certain mark and it doesn't stimulate your mind but force it anyway, you're just going to end up miserable and not get any thrill out of your exercise. More doesn't always mean better, find a balance in what keeps you fired up and still having something left in the tank. I swear on my grandfather's ashes in a pond in some forest in Washington, those 400 Push-ups couldn't hold a candle to the isometric training or the animal workouts I do, it didn't feel the same, it didn't have the same challenge and it sure as hell was no where near the level that makes me love what I do. 

Training is about adventure, discovery, learning who you are and what you're capable of. It's about loving what you do beyond the craziness and the numbers along with the soreness that might come with it. If it fulfils you and makes you feel great even on the hard days, that's what is going to help you in the long run. If it causes you pain, stop doing it, if you're bored out of your mind no matter how hard it is, stop doing it. Never force anything otherwise it's going to hurt mentally and/or physically. 

Are there standards to what constitutes to being fit? Yes but it's complicated especially in this day and age, if you read my statement on the high school football kids about the 300-400 pushups in an hour and ended up in the hospital because of it, you know what I think. There is so much info and so many rules and size differences to what actually makes someone fit that it doesn't matter what you do, you're not going to be fit in the same circles as everyone else. Is it important to be fit? Absolutely but we need to learn what our individual strengths and weaknesses are to make ourselves fit but not comparing to somebody else. We all have various levels of strength that won't have the same attributes to what makes us strong in certain aspects. Not everyone who can do 400 push-ups is going to bench press 500 lbs. Both individuals are strong but not in the same capacity as to what others try to compare to. That be like trying to compare 170 lb person doing pull-ups compared to a 300 lber. Yeah, the lighter guy can highly likely do more but you also got to remember, even if the person can do more, the other guy weighs far more so he doesn't need to a ton in comparison. Here's what I mean, say for example, the lighter guy does 10 pull-ups, 10x170 is 1700, compare that to the heavier guy who can do only 6 or 7 at 300 lbs. 6x300 is 1800 pounds, you see where I'm going with this? Now I'm not saying there's a lot of 300 lb guys doing pull-ups but if you want to play the comparison card, who's really stronger here? 

Here's another example since we're talking about push-ups here....On average, let's say most guys who do push-ups (military style in this scenario) are around 150-185 or so, let's go with 180 for those who like to play this game of comparison. Let's pick an arbitrary number of push-ups to compare to say...300. Guy does 300 push-ups in a workout or in a day doesn't matter it's still 300. let's play a round of Math for all you debaters out there and those who like to shit on who's stronger or who's more fit. In the military or regular push-up, it constitutes around 65% of your bodyweight so 180 lb man doing 300 push-ups, 65% of 180 is what? 117 lbs every time you do 1 rep. 117x300 is what? A total of 35,100 lbs moved throughout the workout or in a day. That's a lot of weight moved for a human being in an exercise, very fit and can total out some serious strength. Now let's make this interesting, I'm 257 lbs. 77 lbs heavier than our boy here, at 257, 65% is 167.05 lbs. That's still quite a bit more weight, around 50+ in comparison. 167.05x300= 50,115 lbs total moved. By this comparison, I'm far stronger and should be a hell of a lot more fitter than the lighter guy. The truth is, we are both strong and fit in our individual rankings in push-ups. You shouldn't have to compare somebody else to what they're level of fitness is by stupid numbers. One has a better pound for pound chance while the other has more mass, that's all it is.

We focus so much on what we're compared to to others that we don't think of the layers of what real comparisons are and debating over bullshit that doesn't do anyone any good. The real point here is, train to what satisfies your discipline and passion for exercise while also understanding your individual strengths and weaknesses. Strengthen your weaknesses as much as possible but not in comparing yourself to others but by learning to be stronger than you were the day, week, year before. In most debated comparisons, you're metaphorically measuring someone else's dick, breast size, ass or whatever and thinking the bigger the better when in reality, it's pretty petty, meaningless and makes you both egotistical. Stop putting others down when they don't have the same strengths as you and/or weaker and don't underestimate someone who may not look fit but could possibly knock you into next week or outlast you. 

Enjoy your training, make it fulfilling and keep being amazingly awesome.