Does Working Out Mean It Has To Be Your Whole Personality?

 I see this question sometimes on Social Media and people have different answers for it. Some treat exercise or fitness as nothing but that and the rest of the world is just a blur, others make it just another part of their day and do whatever after that. For me, I don't know if I would put it as part of my personality or as if its the only thing that matters but more of the lines of it being my passion and using it as an outlet or an entity that utilizes aspects of life outside of it.

Don't get me wrong, fitness is a part of who I 'am, has been for decades and I wouldn't give up on it for anything, but there are separate forces that blends itself together with my daily life. I train for all sorts of reasons and it varies to what I want to do. I'll experiment with things, do a routine here and there a while, push past bouts of emotions, quick moments before going off to do something, mix and match things, have a little fun and sometimes just tackle it with a vengeance because I need to get shit out of my system. 

Yesterday alone, I did 3 workouts because certain things just drove me to do them. Worked on my neck using the Neck Flex Harness with the Resistance Band doing 400 Total Reps. Later in the day did a 500 Rep Dopa Band Circuit, would've wanted to go longer but mentally, things were weighing heavily on me and in those moments, it was the best I got. Before going to bed, I did Joint Loosening Exercises and a HIIT Workout of doing the Sapate for 30 on, 90 off for 8 Rounds. Pretty damn good workout.

This morning, I woke up stupid early and just decided to get something in. Started with my Neck Mobility Routine, Joint Loosening Exercises and Isometrics. A couple of the Isometric Exercises was doing a unilateral Curl and Overhead Press which together alone was 12 contractions, throw in 3 Wall Sits, 3 Upright Row Positions, Hybrid Push-Up & Squat and 9 Positions for the Core (Dead Bug Crunch, Hollow Body, Arch Body & Side Bends) which all together comes out to 29 contractions at 7-12 seconds each at 75-85% Intensity. That's a hell of a workout. 

If I don't do any other workouts today, cool. That kicked my ass and I love it. It is part of my personality, maybe the majority of it but there are things outside of working out that show that I'm more than just some fitness nutball. 

After my gram's passing and finally getting back into my element, certain aspects of it has changed me in some format. Talking with my family a bit more than I have in a very long time, has been comforting, laughing together and not just shooting the breeze or throwing random memories of the crazy shit we did growing up that made our grandma question certain things yet put up with us and still made us feel loved and appreciated. I've thrown some of her lessons around in my own life now that makes me understand some things better. Looking back on my childhood, we had our ups and downs but I'm glad I had her in my life and it is funny that I use to freak her out even as I got older and getting into steel bending and all that. I gave her a few shocks when I would fall back into a bridge and kick over and back or rip a phonebook in half, bend a 6 inch spike or just show her some of the videos I did back in the day. She got a kick out of those really because she saw something in me and encouraged me to do what I love. I miss her very much.

So, does working out mean it has to be your whole personality? I guess it depends on the individual and what they do to make things in their life better. Some take it to extremes and need to be put in the nuthouse with the ridiculous claims they make or rant on stupid shit that make no sense and blends reality with fantasy and delusional obsessions & overwhelming jealousy. Others use it to give people hope, opportunities to better themselves and have something to hold onto along with building knowledge & application. Sometimes, they just workout because it's just another thing to get through the day with, that happens. 

Have a great day today, make it amazingly awesome for you and those around you. Train hard, train smart and have a fucking blast. 

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Tough Keeping A Positive Attitude

    It's not easy being a positive person. We're all human and we have our moments of having that part of us wanting to strangle somebody or just say something to them just to get it out. It's very easy to let loose on negative bullshit because when someone you know or don't know dumps on you and throw all their crap at you it can be very stressful, frustrating and even painful. They may not direct their feelings of draining energy from you personally but it can still be a pain in the ass to deal with. One of the toughest things to do as a human being is having an attitude that is just beautiful, energetic, powerful and a feel good personality. Some are just born with it and have developed a unique way but for the rest of us it's not so easy.

 
    A powerful positive attitude caters to how your personality comes into play. Some look like they're attitude is great until you see how full of themselves and judgmental they are and that changes the game completely. Your attitude is one of the pure definitions of who you are as person both inside and outside. The way you smile and radiate your energy towards a certain goal, the way you treat people and how you see yourself from within. I've known plenty of people in my lifetime that have a somewhat positive attitude on the outside but inside they're egotistical, self-loathing, hypocritical assholes and they're in pain when they realize it or not. I've always been a nurturing guy and I may not always speak my mind towards certain people and have in the past had a negative attitude towards things but it's all about learning and finding what gives me a reason to be happy and positive. Like I said it's not easy whatsoever.

 
    Let me put it to you this way; the way you train, exercise, workout, move whatever; it is important to know that if you do these things with intention and mindfulness it changes your mood in a whole other way. It doesn't matter if you lift weights, do handstands, be like a wild animal or go swimming for that matter your mood is going to change whether you want it to or not. The changes you'll notice is when you put in great effort and jump starting those endorphins, your body begins to shift into a spiritual realm where your structure becomes different, your thinking is a little clearer and your hormones are firing. Why does this happen? It's because when you exert enough of your mind and body's energies physically, mentally and anything else you just want to feel like you're at your highest and for a split second you are at your happiest and you don't know why.

 
    Building a positive outlook takes practice, just like anything else you're interested in or want to accomplish. It's also not one of those 3-6 week courses you do and then be done with it, it's a lifetime of practice that will be filled with experiences, hardship, overcoming spiritual blockage and how you look at things from a certain perspective. When I officially turned 30 almost a month ago, I had this idea in my head that I'm not that old and not just feel younger but wiser and happier, I'm 18 with 12 years of experience and I have been asked what kind of experience I'm referencing and the truth is I've experienced heartbreaks, losing a few friends from my past, nearly died a few times, learned to deal with not being able to walk for nearly three months, people in my family that have died and I've learned hard lessons in relationships, building myself up again and again and many more things so yeah I've dealt with a ton of shit and yet still here laughing my ass off and learning new things that keep me interested. They say you only live once but to me I say live every damn day and live with purpose, love, kindness, happiness and living with who you are and screw the rest who try to bring you down.

 
Glad to be home to share my love of life, training and philosophy with all you bad asses. As a man in his 30's now, iy's going to be one hell of a ride and I'm just warming up. Be awesome and have a kick ass Wednesday.