Train To Play: Our Body, Our Breathing And The Earth Beneath Us

A rigid regimen has its place and we learn the value of control, but other times, we feel the need to express ourselves and not act like robots just given a task and not feel like we have any control. As kids, we didn't know what the value was when we played. It just came natural to us, the imaginative things we thought of, how we expressed them and made up some weird scenarios that became our game. 

We moved with expressive detail, let go of what was normal and formulated our own style to what made us want to run, jump, crawl, putting things in perspective without understanding the words we were using. In a twisted way, we taught ourselves to train. The sad thing is, as we grew up, playing became less and less. We became analytical, we stopped what made us have all these ideas and only took into consideration what we thought we can control yet took away our ability to play.

We breathe everyday, we have to in order to live. But our breath was compromised in many aspects because we are taught to breathe this way or that way, our breath becomes shallow when we panic, we live in fear of what is natural and attempt to take control of what others made us believe which in fact is not controlled by you, it's being conditioned to think we are. The body becomes rigid or soft, it stops being expressive because we stopped using our natural functions for imagination so we can express it outwardly. 

Fitness is more than just how we move our bodies through various planes of motion (weight training, gymnastics, push-ups, pull-ups, bodybuilding), it's what it also gives us mentally. The fitness industry has both good and bad points that comes with greed, self loathing and the ability to manipulate those that are convinced this person or that person is the answer to their problems. We as individuals slowly lose our own abilities to express what was already natural to us.

Within a couple ticks shy of 30 years of practicing various forms of exercise, very few can match the ideals of what it means to move and let go of the rigid mentality of you have to be this way in order to get results. No matter what you do when it comes to training, results will come but not in the way you always think they're going to go. Results vary from person to person, we build our bodies for whatever purposes but we can't look the same otherwise what's the point of your own individuality?

First and foremost, the best equipment we have doesn't come from a machine, a dumbbell or a barbell, hell not even rings or straps; it's the earth. We can jump on it, crawl, run, flip, roll and whatever can make us have it be the platform for self expression. The grass, the dirt, the feeling of our bare feet. The second, some of the best exercise is not pre-set moves like numbered squats, push-ups and weights; it's moving like a wild animal or combining elements that are the successors of putting yourself in a series of moves that are creative and full of life. The ability to switch from one thing to another in the blink of an eye, the idea of learning on the fly and controlling your own destiny within every step. It's bringing back what was already there but amplifying it with even more enthusiasm.

In one of my recent videos of doing various animals and other moves, I just wanted to express myself and not care that it looked weird, not graceful like Ballet or Circ Du Soleil and just let go. Make shit up and combine moves I normally don't do. I don't roll very much yet in one video I'm going backwards and forwards without giving it any real thought. Just an idea and go with it. It was the need to play with what was possible. 

Training to play is more than just learning moves, it's enhancing the ability to be creative, to give yourself the gift of movement and not necessarily use it to make it your identity but to use it as a tool to show what you're capable of. It takes time and practice. Yeah I do Isometrics and other things and they're a part of who I am but the practice of moving freely hits different. It's putting you into a different world altogether. A form of individualism that ties many things together, a family of exercises that forms your being. 

Courses like Movement 20XX teaches this and not just in the exercises themselves, but to give a person the freedom to express themselves. Yes you learn how each exercise works but you also learn about yourself, how to tie the exercises and moves together for your own goals and what you want to accomplish. Not just physical results but the mental aspects as well. You'll see things differently, you'll move in awkward positions yet it'll feel like nature, it's enhancing your brain to think outside the norm. You let go of things for a while and reevaluate what was great as a kid doing things that showed personality, being bold and making a game out of something. 

Train to play. Use the body as a tool, breathe into the earth and find the value what makes fitness amazingly awesome. It's not childish, it's child-like and you get to go back to a place where life is simple and fun. Find your creativeness, use your imagination and learn things that were part of our lives before we became overthinkers and self sabotaging our own individuality.   

Harnessing Your Individuality When It Comes To Training

We all had a hero in some form or another growing up as kids and we admire certain people as we get older but as time goes on and we learn a thing or two, harnessing our own individuality can be a tough gig yet it's part of a necessity that many loathe and can't stand. Some will go to extremes to be like somebody else (HOLLYWOOD wink wink) whether it be in business, fitness, movies, sports or whatever. We tend to promote ourselves as one of a kind but also put too much emphasis on who we are expected to be instead of putting emphasis of who we are and what makes us a unique person.

The reason many can't stand or loathe people being their true selves because mainly they're afraid of their own soul and that being an individual with a single point of unique traits is very hard to achieve. Almost anyone can act out or program themselves to be somebody else because it's easier than building yourself from the ground up. Fitness is right up there with that kind of approach.

When I was growing up, I wanted to be like Michael Jordan, Arnold Schwarzenegger, Barry Sanders and other cool actors and athletes that looked larger than life. In reality, I was short, stocky and about as unathletic and uncoordinated as can be. I wasn't that good at Basketball, couldn't look like a bodybuilder if I tried and I didn't have the aggressiveness to play football. Those traits prevented me from doing a lot of what I wanted to be. As I grew up and learning what my strengths and weaknesses were, little by little things fell into place of what I expected and accepted of myself as opposed to what I was told to be and how to do things by others' standards and expectations.

Once fitness became a part of my very existence, I made a vow to myself to learn everything possible and focus on creating my own style from the things I learned. I've mastered many exercises but don't follow a trainer or guru to the T, I learned how to strengthen my body without the aid of Physical Therapy and never once used a Personal Trainer to show me the ropes. I learned to harness my individuality and continuing to evolve. Is it perfect and is my way meant for everyone? Hell no. Once you understand the value of not trying to be exactly like a Michael Jordan or Arnold or Barry Sanders, you learn the true meaning of being able to strengthen yourself inside and out. Another is, these people are the GOATs of their chosen sport or acting, you can't have the same exact accolades or try to be the way they were. There are people out there with better skills and have more titles to their name but don't have the same recognition. 

We train to better ourselves, not to showoff and try to be better than somebody else. We win, we lose and we're human with different capabilities, traits and fortitude. You can make it known what you're capable of and have a great level of strength, conditioning and a powerful will but in the end, you and you alone are the very best at what's happening right now. Certain things will fade and adjust to what comes next but never underestimate the power of your own individuality. Learn to progress and grab a hold of what makes you the best version of you. You can be a great wrestler and do all sorts of moves and submissions, you can be a great powerlifter that sets records and have strength beyond belief or you can develop an all around level of anything you set your mind to. Your training is what you develop to do something great later on no matter how big or small, victories come in all shapes and sizes. 

Be an individual of your own accord and make the most of what makes you great. It's a long journey but it doesn't have to be boring or so extreme that it becomes unrealistic. It can be interesting and you'd be surprised what you're capable of if you just open up your soul and become something you were meant to be because it's you and no one else. 

Connection & Individuality

           There’s always energy surrounding us. Sometimes we feel it more so than others, often the majority can’t even fathom or notice it but it is there, how we use that energy is up to us as a whole; physically, emotionally, intuitively, spiritually and mentally. Like the force, energy binds us, connects us and hits us from every angle even when we don’t notice it. It’s that universal power that creates the fire and emotion we all have.

            We are all connected but also have a single body. Our connection to others has different meanings whether you’re good or bad, part of a religion or a spiritual enthusiast, race, creed it doesn't matter what does matter is when something is off balance something always seems to hit us in one way or another. Connecting with others gives you the opportunity to learn and understand where they come from and what they mean to you but also as an individual it’s important to learn about yourself and how you see yourself having that connection.

            We strive all our lives to find who we are as a person and for some, they become something they didn't expect to be, others feel it’s their destiny to be apart of something and then there are those that are forced into becoming something they don’t want to be. Finding who you are is the ultimate challenge and it’s never easy but once it hits you, you never want to turn back and move forward with what you want to become. Loving others is another challenge and it’s just as hard as finding who you are but it’s simpler. Loving another human being is a state of mind in my opinion because no matter what they've done that may seem hurtful or even grateful, in your mind they’re still a human being and having some kind of love for them makes you nobler, caring, giving and having the will power to not give into the hate.

            There are different meanings to certain things but all have a common goal; being accepted. Accept who you are and accept who certain people are because the more you try to change who you are or someone else, it’s just going to be a bigger burden on you. Accept change. Not saying you should join a cult or become a mass murderer I’m not talking that kind of acceptance, I’m talking about acceptance that’s meaningful to you and it has a positive notion of how you want to see the world. Our mindset is different from each person and we all see the world in our own way but yet if you learned to shift your mind to a positive image and feel love no matter where you go, our energy changes, our emotions perk up, we find things that make us happy.

            I’ll tell you first hand that even around people I love and care about, some of them don’t accept me as a person because of some of the things I do or say, hell they can’t stand my sense of humor most of the time and it’s not a burden on me, it’s on them but it’s up to me to learn how to control my mind and see a more positive outlook from those who have no real positive objectives. What I’m pointing out is that even if you’re not accepted even by those closest to you, you must accept yourself. It’s one thing and when you learn to use it, the rest of the world don’t mean a damn thing except you made it a priority to love the world for what it is.