I have been training on my own since I was 21 years old. When I first learned how to walk again, I had to learn how to concentrate hard enough to where everything else around me didn't exist. It does get lonely at times but it taught me how to be self-reliant and to challenge myself not to let anyone else help me unless I was desperate enough. When I was in college, yeah I worked out around people and gave them a helping hand as well as learning from them but I was at my very best when I put myself into that mode of "it's just me and nothing else."
Training by yourself has its own rewards and you learn more about yourself than when training alongside others. The only time I have ever truly felt comfortable training with others was other strongmen and not feeling like an outcast or someone who didn't belong. By myself, it becomes a mental game more than anything. The cons really of training alone is that if you're stuck or you get hurt, you're on your own and have to figure out how to save your own ass; it's not the same as being in a gym, they're there to make sure you don't do anything stupid and if you're training by yourself and do something stupid, there are those close by.
Unless there's a training session with my wife, my workouts are nothing but me, some music and whatever I end up doing. I take my training seriously to the point where I shut everything out around me and put on some music and don't stop until I'm ready to call it a day. Some days, my mind runs ragged and I can't always concentrate (we're human, it happens) but most days, I just want to be left alone to do my thing and take care of me. That's one of the true benefits of working out is to give time to yourself and do things that put you into a state of mind where you're in control and you get to choose your challenges and schemes.
On those days where I do up to 1000 Step-ups, I put on music and just go, nothing in the world matters but being in those moments of exercising not just physically but getting in tuned with your inner self. With those Animal Workouts, before every animal I move as, for a split moment, I visualize myself transforming into it and believe that it is the strongest and most powerful it can be. I shut out everything except the music and the movement, I make it feel as if they are one with me.
What training alone has really taught me was to be open with yourself and understand the only competition you have is just you and making the most of your abilities. I get to pick and choose what I get to do, I can make the choice to do something easy or extremely hard and what pace I get to go as. I'm in no competition with anyone, there's always going to be someone out there faster and stronger than me but not everyone can do what I can do. I figured out on my own how to develop my own program, how to go hard when it's the right time and when to back off.
I rarely have let anyone coach me, really only a few have ever worked with me and showed me the ropes, everything else I have read, watched and mimicked. I have literally taught myself to shut out the world, some days are not as easy as others but my style is what I live by and what it has given me. I would love to train people but as I've gotten older, I realize that my style of exercise and my way of training someone isn't always compatible with someone else who wants to train.
When you can shut things out and just focus on the task at hand, you'll start to understand what it takes to make things happen. I've pushed myself for so many years especially in the beginning because for the most part, other than learning a thing or two from dear friends, I had no one to rely on but myself. When I'm training, two things will happen if you try to jump in, you're either going to try to keep up or get kicked out, I don't allow anyone to work out with me unless they're prepared to work, I don't give a damn who it is. I'll be having fun with some things but my pace, my attitude and my dedication is about as serious as a heart attack.
Train according to your style, not everyone is willing to train by themselves, if you're at your best with partners than have at it but if you're on your own, only let in who is worthy and shut everything else out until you're done.
No comments:
Post a Comment