Showing posts with label Don't Be Afraid Of Failure. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Don't Be Afraid Of Failure. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 6, 2022

What's Another Way To Skyrocket Our Physical Fitness?

 There's a saying that The Sky's The Limit to what our potential could be. What if we went beyond that into the realms of the universe? What if we reached beyond the stars and found a way to take our potential to another level? Hell in this day and age we built rockets that shoot up into space yet in order to do that, we need a foundation in order to build these things, a base if you will. Being steady is another step like the rocket because if it isn't steady and flops around, it's not going anywhere. When it comes to training, we also need a base or a foundation to get on that track to greatness. We don't start out great but we build on the tools needed to become great.

Ancient Martial Artists use the word grounding as the foundation, in the western world, we call it stability. It's the source of all our power. A tree cannot grow without the aid of water and soil. Without the support, our power, our strength is as useless as a shoelace in a pool game. To hit our hardest and jump our highest, being still and firm is our first level of mastery. To create something awesome in motion, stillness is the groundwork. Some of us can develop it naturally, others it may take some time and learning to understand how our body's handle the prerequisites. We are shooting out into the universe after all but in order to do do that, we have to master the earth first.

This is one of those missing links to many people's regimens. We try to push harder and harder and not realize that we are setting ourselves back more than we are going forward. We become more limited than expanded. Just like the rocket, if there is a miscalculation, that thing will crash and burn. It needs to possess the qualities to reach it's fullest potential otherwise disaster strikes. Many methods work, there's no question about it but very few will take you to places that you didn't think were possible.

I want to help you find the tools you need to reach the potential that goes more than what others may say about you or what you say about yourself. We all have aspirations to be strong, fit and full of energy, but where's the ground work, where's the foundation. Whether you're an everyday person, an athlete, a farmer or a shoe salesman like Al Bundy, there's potential that's waiting to be unleashed. 

One way to see through this is taking on a course like Athlete 20XX where there's so much room to improve yourself on yet also room for failure but success comes from failing and failure is one of the best teachers we can ever have. Not telling you to fail on purpose but to help you find your success and give you some cool stuff to do in order to succeed.  

Lay the ground work and build on unleashing the strongest version of yourself. It won't be easy and it may not come naturally to you but with discipline, a creative mind and a thirst for physical knowledge is within the palm of your hands. Be successful and keep striving to be amazingly awesome. 

Monday, July 11, 2022

I've Failed And The Lesson I'm Learning From It

"I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life...And that is why I succeed."- Michael Jordan

Failing is a powerful teacher that comes often in our lives. I've failed to do 100 Burpees in a row, I've failed to keep a program going for more than 6 weeks and most importantly, I've failed myself for believing that certain things whether from a fitness standpoint or personally would make me happier or fall in love with because others have told me to. One of the biggest things I've ever had to deal with in my life was letting others down because I didn't live up to the hype or the expectations. Most of the time, very few people give a shit what you do and the rest just don't care but want to spew how much of a failure you are. 

I've said it over and over again that when I talk about what I'm going to do or what my goals are and end up failing because I've talked about it just puts me in a dark state yet I've repeated it time and time again. Many get it, but many also just want to tear you a part for it because you're not what you're expected to be. I'm no fitness god or some perfect specimen, I'm just a guy, one of 7 1/2 billion on this planet who's had some success but plenty of failures like anybody else. Just a speck in the universe. If you don't like what I write or have an issue with what I say, than walk away. Don't read my stuff, no need to make asshole comments just so you can be noticed, the more you hassle somebody because you can't stand them, the more it says about you than the person writing. 

That's easier said than done because I've gotten caught up in the web of making snarky and negative comments towards people and have failed over and over to just walk away. I need to take my own advice on many things and learn to take things for what they are and pay attention more to who I really trust in this world. Very few in my life I trust and one of them isn't here anymore that I can talk to. I understand this article comes off as a pity party and I'm just begging for attention when the truth is; this is just me being human and sharing with you a side of me that is about as real as you can get until you've actually been around me and not just go by what I've written.

There is this fear people have of being open about their failures. I'm no exception but I also know who will tell me the truth, the real truth because they know me best. If you don't know me outside of the web, you have no reason to tell me the truth or have the faintest idea of what the truth is with me. So if you plan on making any comments good or bad, think twice about what you plan on saying.

Being happy in reality, is a mindset. I know this and it's a constant learning thing for me. Exercise and fitness makes me happy but very few methods I'm in love with. The type of love for exercise where I know regardless of how I do it, I never will have a movie star body or have heads turn from every other person walking down the street but I will bust my ass for the thing that I love and gives me joy. There's always going to be someone stronger, faster and far better looking than I'll ever be but that's ok. My expectations are from myself, not from somebody else and how I do things is not perfect, never will be and the way I train is what makes me happy. 

You'll never see me do the best looking pullup or the most awesome pushup, I don't have the patience to do 1000 or even 500 Squats anymore, I don't have a great looking set of Core Muscles but I know how strong they are, I move weird in certain animal exercises but that's what the universe gave me. I know what I can do and constantly learning what I'm capable of. What I can do has kept me strong and durable for the longest time, what I can do, helps others and what I can do, inspires a lot. I've also failed at doing things that weren't meant for me in the first place and tried to live up to others' ideas. 

I'm not meant to do someone else's program to the "T", I wasn't meant to live up to those who don't really matter and I'm damn sure I wasn't meant to be affiliated with a company that by all accounts, has a guy who thinks he's hot shit and acts like he's god's gift to fitness when he looks like Twiggy and can't properly set up a camera to get a good angle for exercises. If you feel the need to film yourself being in a dark ass room and nobody can see you but you want everyone to listen to you, you might want to just put out an audio. Anyway, the real lesson here is, failure is a part of life, the real success is how we break through it and keep fighting to get what makes us successful. 

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