Had Enough Yet?

 Sometimes we ask ourselves "Am I doing enough in my workouts?", "Am I getting enough reps in?" or "Will this be enough to make me stronger?" The truth is, we all don't always feel satisfied when we train. It can be a constant battle of being able to do enough. Some just push on and not realizing that not only have they done enough, they go too far beyond it and end up hurting themselves. There are those as well that just don't know any better and are so brain dead that they don't even understand why they're killing themselves in the name of exercise.

We are more capable than we believe to be and some of us are still learning this and figuring out what makes us stronger and doing amazingly awesome things. Now, we also come to a point in time where we just tell ourselves "Ok, this is enough for now" and we move on or do a little better the next time around. Feeling satisfied for some means they've done it, they've made it through and they're happy with it. For others, being unsatisfied means they're unhappy and feel like a failure or they may have done all they could but it just didn't feel right. It happens sometimes, more often than we care to admit.

When I started out with the Hindu Push-ups, Hindu Squats and the Bridge, I just wanted to see what I was capable of and just being able to rep out the best I could. I became frustrated when I was trying to satisfy the standards that the people demonstrating them saying you have to do this many push-ups, that many squats and hold this much time in the bridge. When I stopped trying to hold other people's standards on a pedestal, I felt free, in control to see what my standards were because my standards are what matters. Because of this, in various workouts, I've done more than 200 Hindu Push-ups, 500+ Squats and held a bridge for three minutes without thinking anything about it. Once I felt satisfied with my standards, I moved on.

When you hold your own standards, you're free to challenge yourself to your levels on your terms. When someone else sets standards for you, who're you really holding up to? Sure in some cases, when someone else sets a standard and you accomplish it (or even survive), it can feel great especially if the person who set them is a mentor or someone you highly admire and you believe in what they're trying to help you accomplish but the truest form of satisfactory is when you set your own standards and you make the choice of doing enough. 

This is more on developing your own fitness programs and such and setting goals or standards of training for yourself, this does not mean that if you're training for law enforcement, military, firefighter training or hell if you're in the damn CIA, you're training for specific purposes and there are standards and tests that need to be up to a certain qualification otherwise you need to up to the task or you won't make it. If you're training at a gym or at home or wherever, you can set your own goals and it's on you whether you fail or not or feel the satisfaction because you made that choice. 

These days when I train, I sometimes fail at attempting certain things or just had enough because my body or mind just isn't there that day or getting through it and had enough that day. Some days, I feel great just getting a thing in or two, I make the choice of what I want to do and if I fail, it happens, if I feel I've had enough, that's my choice. Because of this, I don't feel as sore, I recover naturally and I strive to be a little better each time. Holding onto someone else's standards that don't meet with yours is a recipe for disaster and you have an opportunity to make your own standards and learn what it takes to make things better for your body and mind. There are plenty of things I can't do that people have set a standard for but there are just as much that they can't do what I have done, that's the true nature of doing enough for you, you can do great things, make it enough for you to grow and feel that you made something satisfactory.